This or That thread

[Dub16]

First topic message reminder :

(i'd say we all know how this thread works by now...)

JD or Vodka?

[Guest]

Orange Juice, but cranberry juice is better for ya

Brazil or Spain (i'm thinking in terms of the world cup here)

[Guest]

Brazil - I live in mini Brazil lol!!

watch tv or go on computer

[Dub16]

A very very very quiet forum which goes into hibernation and everyone sleeps like sleepy, sleepy hedgehogs? or em, a different forum?

[Guest]

Go on the computer.

High heels or flat shoes? (Sorry lads )

[Dub16]

Heels. They look pretty good.

Coffee tea or me?

[Guest]

Tea....sorry Garry but the old people have made me like tea

[padmasana]

to be or not to be

[Guest]

To be

Sheldon or Leonard (from The Big Bang Theory)

[padmasana]

sheldon of course :p , hes a legend !

night or day

[Guest]

As much as he is - he would be very annoying to live with

Night is by far the better

Watch the film or read the book first

[padmasana]

books FTW . much more enjoyable, lasts longer and enhances ur english.


yin or yang ??

[Guest]

Books never enhanced my language!!!

Yang...it sounds nicer

Bright light or dim light

[x_No_Oil_Painting_x]

Dim Light.

Charlie Sheen or Ashton Kutcher?
[i'm on a TAAHM buzz!!]

[Guest]

Charlie Sheen. Though i havent seen any episode with ashton kutcher.

Sun or Skiing holiday?

[Guest]

Skiing though I have never been

shower before bed or in the morning

[padmasana]

in the morning ( however, a shower b4 bed is very enjoyable too and quiet refreshing.)


accepting yourself or tryin to change yourself

[Guest]

Accepting, for me, - I don't want to fit in, I want to be comfortable being me!

Creating yourself or finding yourself

[padmasana]

hmm......... excellent question J .

creating yourself - atm im learning how to think differently and unlearning negative core beliefs which i learned while growing up (nature/nuture).

this time last year i would of defo said finding myself.

(actually, can u explain the question to me from your point of view?? ) and what would you choose??

[Guest]

I think really they could mean the same thing - but thinking that you are creating yourself I believe makes one feel more in control of developing who they are I think it could be more modavating (sp) . Where finding yourself is like things are already set for you and you just have to find what is it where creating is if you like or want to be something you can do it if you try hard enough but if you are in the finding mode I think it is easier to give up as you may think it's just not meant to be.

For me it is creating, I don't think there is a set path for me, I believe I have to set it and work at it. Sometimes I think what will be will be but I like to think I am in control of that destination and have input to it and that nothing is controlling me. It was a quote a came across and it really changed how I looked at life, made me more positive and not afraid to stand out

I don't know if I am making sense at this point....

[padmasana]

haha, yes it does make sense alright.

creating yourself makes a lot more sense than finding yourself i think and it does allow you to be in control. im too hungover atm to think properly, lol. so i ll try give u a better reply tomorrow.

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