I need new friends...

This is embarrassing to post but i just lost ANOTHER group of friends.
They just totally turned on me (on facebook, for everyone to see) for no given reason.
To make it worse i live with two of em!
I have no close friends left..... as usual....
I'm moving out anyway. Just gotta get a deposit and a house.
I'm always moving house - Running from my problems; People.
I really could do with some new friends who can understand me and not take advantage of the fact I'm so socially anxious.
As usual i'm blaming myself for these people hating me.
But i honestly can't see what I've done wrong!!

hey ya char. im real sry to hear your going through a rough patch again. in my opinion you dont need friends like that around you. they will only make tings worse for you, keep the chin up though and dont let this get u down. im goin thorugh a bad patch myself atm. seems like whenever i take 2 steps forward , i get knocked back 3 steps. its a pain in the hole tbh, but im working on it. im tryin meditation and working out. who better to solve ur problems but yourself !! anyhow..... let us know how u get on and if ya need to talk im always ere. tc char !!!

Thanks Johnny..

Argh its so stressful!!
Why do i always have bad luck with friends?!
Wreeeecks me head!!

I'd do what you're doing if i didn't lack motivation
...or money for that matter.
With me its more like trying medication and walking out.

Yuuup im moving again...

I'm the same as you except its 1 step forward, then i fall flat on my face!
Not good...

Hope you're okay!!

you just have nt found the right friends is all. and you dont need friends like the ones you had. ur better off without them !! so i hope ur not worryin about it too much. just try to remain positive ( easy to say ?? yes, lol but if dont remain positive, it ll only makes tings worse !! ). as for what im doing.... i have weights and shit out me back.... that i bought couple yrs back when i was working, lol. i decided to strat working out bout 3 weeks ago and a week later i gte a panic attack and fks everytinng up, lol. ( i thought keeping healthy was good for you ??? ). will u be moving back to nenagh again ?? o0 and tx btw..... im alright. this is just a little set back is all. im tryin to remain upbeat about this, lol.




sry bout my typos, lol.

Aw sorry to hear about your friend troubles, and i think i know how you feel, i seem to nearly always fall into groups of people who use me as a doormat, but i've learnt that these things happen, and i try to see it as a lesson learnt.

Cheer up, you'll meet new people and if you wanna talk, you can always PM me.

sorry to hear about your problems, for me i just need friends, i have hardly any friends to start with "joys of SA" it really dont make things easy

Thanks for the replies - appreciate it..

Johnny
I never seem to find the right friends.
I'm never good enough to put up with for more than a year or a few months.
I'd love to just text the people who I stopped talking to on horrible terms and build my life back up again.
But I'm so scared they'll just insult me or turn on me again in the future.
It sucks not having friends who you can be yourself around...
I try be positive but its impossible!
I'm stalking their faceook's to see if they're bitching about me.
I know its not healthy but i really can't help it!
I'd keep up the excercise if i were you.
I'm gonna start excercising myself soon.
Joining a womans gym so ill do loadsa classes there.
Hey, everyone says excercise does anxiety sufferers the world of good.
Just give it time!!
See, ill be worrying about people seeing me in the gym with my red face and gasping for breath! You're doing it at home so it'll be easy peasy for you - go on, give it another go!
You'll get panic attacks for a while but didn't it make you feel better when you were doing all that work?!
Yehh, im staying in nenagh. Just gonna get a different place - for my own sanity!
Hopefully ill make new friends eventually but it doesnt look very likely...


Christina
I know how it feels to ALWAYS be a doormat.
Nothing worse than people taking advantage of the fact they know you're anxious or afraid of them!!
I find it impossible to see it as a lesson learnt.
It seems like the opposite to me.
Like "What did i do this time?!"...
Sometimes it feels like i let off some sort of repellent that makes people want to run away from me.
Its been happening to me all my sodding life!
That group of friends were like my last hope of ever having good friends..
So you can probably understand why i dont think im gonna find anymore.....


Robbie
Yeah, we all need friends.
But its more important to have people who understand us or at least are some bit supportive.
Whats the point in being friends with people who judge and bitch about you?
Only problem is most people seem to be like that these days.
Wouldn't it be cool just to have some nice honest understanding people as friends?!
Not easy tho since its so bloody hard to talk to people!!
I wish i knew how to have a conversation and not scare people away!!